Feeling Safe

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It can feel hard to feel safe with all that is going on in the world. Feeling unsafe can stress your nervous system out causing digestive issues (gas, bloating, constipation/diarrhea), heartburn, high blood pressure, anxiety, headaches, muscle or joint pain, lack of motivation, or hyperactivity.

If you feel like your life is being threatened, please seek help. For domestic abuse call the National Domestic Violence Hotline 1−800−799−7233. For immediate support, call 911.

Steps to Feeling Safe:

  • Recognize that safety does exist and that you deserve it.
  • Remember times when you have felt safe and joyful. When you are feeling stressed or unsafe, turn to your journal or fond memory and focus on it. For example, if you remember feeling relaxed and warm laying on the beach, bring up a memory of that, and allow it to flow into your fears. Find your safe place by listening to my Safe Place Guided Meditation.
  • Create a gratitude journal. It is a great way to focus on all that is going right in your life.
  • Support your physical body: Get enough sleep, eat well, exercise regularly, limit alcohol. Click here for more self care options.
  • Connect with people who have your best interest at heart and help you feel safe.
  •  Limit or end unhealthy relationships with people who make you feel unsafe and are not trustworthy.
  •  Discover what unconditional love really means and apply it to yourself-accepting that you are not perfect and that is OK. Read more about feeling loved and plant essences to help you feel loved.
  •  Seek out psychotherapy or counseling to work through and heal from not feeling safe. EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is one modality that can help you learn to feel safe.
  • Taking plant essences focusing on feeling safe can help tremendously. Each essence focuses on a specific thought or emotional pattern blocking you from feeling safe. If you are having a hard time right now, I encourage you to ask the plants for help. Plant essences help settle you into a new way of being, connected to yourself, nature, and your community.  

If you are unsure about what plant essence to use, schedule a phone or video appointment with me to identify plant essences specific for your current situation. You can also purchase my Oracle deck and intuitively pick plant essence cards. You can also look at the plant essence images online to identify the plant essence that gets your attention. If you can’t decide on one plant essence, purchase Feeling Safe Plant Essence Blend a combination of all the plants listed below.

Take a moment to tune in to how you are feeling about being safe. What thoughts are you hearing most often? What emotions are you feeling? If you have trouble connecting to your thoughts and feelings, take 20 min to journal about whatever comes to mind. Set a timer and sit with a paper and pen. Whatever you write down helps you connect to what you are thinking and feeling. 


Magnolia:  Magnolia helps in each step of your journey. It walks the path of life with you providing shelter, warmth, and buffering you from the outside world. It helps you slow down and teaches the art of caring for and nurturing yourself. Feel the power of softness. Find companionship, love, and nurturing. Feel the soft cocoon to retreat, rest, and be restored. Feel connected to your inner knowing to understand what balance looks like for you. See the strength of an open heart. The beauty, healing, and strength in receiving love. I will help you feel loved, safe, and enfolded in a soft blanket of warmth. Read more (Excerpt from Honoring the Wisdom In nature: messages from the plant kingdom)

Prickly Pear Cactus

Prickly Pear Cactus: Prickly Pear Cactus asks us to listen quietly. It softly and slowly helps you feel better about yourself. Quietly inviting you inside your center to feel what is right in your life: abundance and gratitude templates for feeling all the love and support you have in your life.  Prickly Pear Cactus help you meditate by holding in you in a space to slowly center. It helps you open your heart making heart knowledge more important than head knowledge. See your surroundings. Be free and present in the experience to see that most thoughts are not necessary. See how you view stress and change how you interact with yourself, quieting the mind slowly and gently opening your heart. Reconnect with who you are and live from your center. Read more (Excerpt from Honoring the Wisdom In nature: messages from the plant kingdom)

Golden Dyssodia
Golden Dyssodia

Golden dyssodia: Feel the spirit of companionship. Golden dyssodia helps to bring the soul into the body “mattering” and that it is safe and your birthright to do so. As you become embodied, feel the strength that arises from the balance between body and mind. Releases chronic stress in the body related to guarding and posturing from unconscious triggers. Gently bring these forward to heal and release at the right time. Understand the cycle of healing: remembering, honoring the experience, self-forgiveness, and letting go. All a repeating cycle. Also helpful if you are empathic and take on the emotions of other people, your community, or the world. Golden dyssodia helps you separate your emotions from emotions you are picking up. Read more (Excerpt from Honoring the Wisdom In nature: messages from the plant kingdom)

Sweet Leaf

Sweet Leaf: Be at peace with the world and forget about saving everyone. Let the world take care of itself. Know your place, deep within, that grounds and connects you to the earth. Savor the sweetness and feel the support of the earth. Know that you are one with the earth. This connection is available to everyone at all times. Sink into the bliss of being yourself, protecting this space with strong boundaries. Allow others to feel exactly what they are feeling without changing it or running to fix it. Everyone has tools, support, and resources. Keep your tools, support, and resources for yourself. There is enough to go around. Feel safe when strengthening your boundaries, having limits, and saying no when needed. Your beingness is for you to enjoy. Read more (Excerpt from Honoring the Wisdom In nature: messages from the plant kingdom)


Snapdragon: Allow your mind to think outside the box. Free your mind from fears of repeating the past. Be courageous in living life knowing that it is full of possibility. The mind when focused on fear and worry, is the only thing limiting the future. Put the past to sleep. Let it slumber and fade into a dream you cannot fully remember. Heal from all that has happened by honoring your willingness and courage to live. Handle all outcomes with the same strength and honor of listening to yourself. Your heart’s desire, your head’s concerns, and your mental thoroughness. Connect to your soul and listen to the song it is singing. Read more (Excerpt from Honoring the Wisdom In nature: messages from the plant kingdom)

Strawberry Hedgehog Cactus

Strawberry Hedgehog Cactus: Strawberry Hedgehog invites you to live from your heart. Feel safe and make your heart a place you want to live from. Experience lightheartedness and laugh. See the the depth and lightness at the same time. The depth of feeling in a moment. Open your heart and feel how it is protected even when open. Balances the heart by providing protection. Allow space for the heart to open and unfold without guarding. What you do with an open heart is up to you. Read more (Excerpt from Honoring the Wisdom In nature: messages from the plant kingdom)


Yucca: Yucca helps you feel peaceful, protected, and rooted in your environment. Go with the flow and feel the power of creativity moving through your body. Feel deeply ground by sitting with Yucca. Breathe and feel your energy drop into your feet and enter the ground. Yucca helps sort out what still serves you from what no longer serves from the past experiences held in the body.  Everything is okay. The mind can process the past and file it away removing the emotional charge it once had. The mind can now have space to be more creative and live in the present moment. Yucca promotes deep sleep, decreasing anxiety, and overthinking. Read more (Excerpt from Honoring the Wisdom In nature: messages from the plant kingdom)


Mullein: Mullein helps you feel included and part of something larger. It gently brings awareness, warmth, balance, and energy to the body. By doing so, it makes the body a safe place. You begin to see what you are carrying, the ease and importance in healing, and releasing tension and trauma. It buffers the intensity of emotions to be able to see the truth of the pattern and what to do to release it. It speaks about the futility of self-inflicted pain and suffering held in the body causing physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual dysfunction. Read more (Excerpt from Honoring the Wisdom In nature: messages from the plant kingdom)

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